
Remembering John Brodie, 1970-2006Submitted by admin on Mon, 01/26/2009 - 12:01
John's close friend Inez Kochius, a longtime Freedom Center supporter, was working with Freedom Center to try to support and care for John in the months before this tragic event cut John's life short. Inez shares her thoughts and feelings three years afterwards, in a society that has still not learned basic lessons of kindness towards mental difference. Inez writes "To me John did not accidentally drown, he was driven into the water -- by all of us." Read the Rutland Herald story about John Brodie. Go to the Freedom Center page for more about John. (drawing by Charlotte Clarke) __________
Three years later... a steadfast conspiracy of silence. It's been almost three years since my friend John Brodie died. I was blessed to have had John in my life. As his death anniversary is approaching Jan. 28th, I still miss John and the injustice is beyond words. As a result of John's death, I felt drawn to the psychiatric abuse survivor community and found tremendous support. As I got somewhat involved I learned that John's death is not as uncommom as I had thought at first, yet this knowledge did not exactly console me nor did it help my anger. A lot of people, who are what is commonly called 'mentally ill', are being oppressed worldwide, yet there seems to be a steadfast conspiracy of silence about it. To quote Edmund Schoenenberger http://swiss.1net/1ftpdemokratie/ :"I'm absolutly sure, that, considering the total number of deaths as well, the last 130 years of global coercive psychiatry by far overshadows what happened during Inquisition or Holocaust. E.S." The problem is that the public has been duped into thinking that people who are or behave differently, for what ever reason, have defective brains, are dangerous to self and/or others and must be controlled with what ever it takes, even if that means resorting to violence, i.e. restraining them physically and/or chemically and depriving them of their basic human right called freedom, like locking them up, and administering electro shock or using taser guns on people. These kinds of treatments are traumatizing, controlling and oppressive, also known as torture or abuse!
I fail to buy into the argument that people exhibiting signs of emotional distress are dangerous and need to be subdued by force. In a way we have created prisons for people who behave differently by taking away their freedom, by stigmatizing them, by poisoning them and by keeping them marginalized, sometimes even causing their death, when all we really need to do is mind our own business and practise love and kindness and compassion. It's a lot cheaper and has no known negative side effects. I was lucky to have known John and it is shameful the world was not able to be kinder and gentler. John's death is a great loss to the world. In John's memory I want to ask people to stop the oppression and the violence/torture. We can all start by making a conscious effort to change our thinking, to abandon our fears and by showing love and gentleness and by accepting and embracing each other's differences. Peace, Inez ( categories: )
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